Couples therapy in Brooklyn
When the same argument keeps arriving in a different costume, and you can both recite the other person’s lines.
Most couples arrive able to describe the problem perfectly and unable to move it. You have had this conversation before. You may have had it this week.
So we work on what happens between you in the room, not only on the retelling of it. Sometimes that means slowing one exchange down until you can both hear what is underneath it. Sometimes it means trying it a completely different way, out loud, to find out what else was available.
I am a registered drama therapist, which is where those other ways in come from. You do not need to be creative and you will not be asked to perform. If you would rather only talk, we only talk.
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